Changing Focus, Post 5

Lessons From the Storm

Matthew 14:22-32 tells the story of what happened when Peter and the other disciples took their focus off Jesus and placed it instead on their circumstances. Let’s look at this story in detail.

                      Immediately after this, Jesus insisted that his disciples get back into the boat and cross to the other side of the lake, while he sent the people home. After sending them home, he went up into the hills by himself to pray. Night fell while he was there alone.
                Meanwhile, the disciples were in trouble far away from land, for a strong wind had risen, and they were fighting heavy waves. About three o'clock in the morning Jesus came toward them, walking on the water. When the disciples saw him walking on the water, they were terrified. In their fear, they cried out, "It's a ghost!"
                But Jesus spoke to them at once. "Don't be afraid," he said. "Take courage. I am here!"
                Then Peter called to him, "Lord, if it's really you, tell me to come to you, walking on the water."
                "Yes, come," Jesus said.
                So Peter went over the side of the boat and walked on the water toward Jesus. But when he saw the strong wind and the waves, he was terrified and began to sink. "Save me, Lord!" he shouted.
                Jesus immediately reached out and grabbed him. "You have so little faith," Jesus said. "Why did you doubt me?"
                When they climbed back into the boat, the wind stopped. Then the disciples worshiped him. "You really are the Son of God!" they exclaimed.
    Matthew 14:22-32

Verse 22 tells us that the disciples got into a boat and separated themselves from Jesus. After Jesus performed the miracle of feeding the five thousand, John tells us (John 6:15) that the crowds intended to force Jesus to be their king. They did not understand Jesus’ mission at all. They saw him only as a means of escaping their circumstance of oppressive Roman rule. The disciples were likely caught up in the excitement of the crowd and shared their ideas. This is still early in Jesus’ ministry, and the disciples still did not understand His purpose. Instead, they were trying to make him into what they wanted Him to be. Seeing that the disciples were siding with the crowd, it is possible that Jesus had them get into the boat to separate them from the zealous intentions of the Jews.
           
The disciples were trying to make Jesus fit into their life, instead of conforming themselves to His. As a result, they are separated from Him and choose to go on alone. We too separate ourselves from God when we refuse to submit to Him. When we become caught up in our emotions rather than listening to God’s voice, we often find ourselves becoming separated, not only from Him, but from those around us as well.

Once the disciples were in the boat, Jesus went off on His own to pray. The Bible mentions that while He was there, night fell. This seemed like a fitting image to me of what our lives are like when we separate ourselves from the Light of the World. Darkness is often a picture in the Bible of a life without God’s presence.
           
Now that the disciples were separated from Jesus, they find themselves in trouble. A storm arose at sea and was threatening to destroy them. They are left vulnerable and being attacked on every side. Mark (6:48) states that they were straining against the oars, fighting against the onslaught of the wind and waves, but with no way out.
           
When the disciples stepped away from Jesus’ protection, they left themselves vulnerable. We can think of the wind and waves as Satan’s attacks against us. When we step out from under the protection of God, we leave ourselves open to Satan’s attacks. Like the disciples we find ourselves caught in the middle of the storm with no way of escape. It seems like a hopeless situation.
           
Jesus, knowing that the disciples were in trouble, comes to them, walking on the water itself. The first thing to take away from this is that Jesus recognized their need and their helplessness. He saw their struggle and their weariness, and knew they couldn’t prevail on their own. Second, realizing they are without hope, Jesus comes to them. He doesn’t wait for them to fight their way back to Him, He comes to them. Jesus always meets us at our point of need. Third, he comes to them walking on the water, demonstrating that He is greater than anything that would come against us. Though they threatened the disciples very existence, the wind and waves could not keep Jesus from coming to their aid. Last, it is interesting to note that Jesus came to them during the “fourth watch”, sometime between 3:00 AM and 6:00 AM, right before the dawn. In the Bible, night is a symbol of troubled times, or times of fear and despair. Dawn, on the other hand, is a symbol for a new beginning or deliverance.
           
The disciples, caught up in their fear of their circumstances, do not recognize their Lord. They think He is a ghost, another illusion of false hope. When we are focused on our circumstances, we can often fail to recognize the help that is right in front of us.
           
Jesus speaks comfort to them, telling them that He has come to set everything right and rescue them from their situation. Three simple words, “I am here” meant the turning point in the storm, deliverance from destruction, and hope in a hopeless situation. He needed no explanation of why they should trust Him. He had already calmed the seas once before (Matthew 8:23-27), proving then that “even the winds and waves obey Him”. There was no need for Him to explain why they shouldn’t be afraid, the explanation was in the word “I”—just as God told Moses to tell the Israelites “I AM” had sent him. The proof of God’s power is in the very fact of who He is. God had come to save them, without a resume, or a long list of previous miracles. He had saved them once and He would save them again.
           
Peter, realizing it was His savior, calls out to Jesus, asking Him to permit Him to come. Even though Peter says “if it’s really you”, he knew it was Jesus. Had he not believed, he never would have stepped out of the boat. Perhaps what Peter was really asking was “if it really is You—if You really are I AM—what else do I have to fear”. Maybe this was when Peter truly realized that Jesus was God, for it was after this event that we see Peter’s confession of Jesus as God’s Son (Matthew 16:13-20).
           
Jesus tells Peter to join Him, inviting him to share the same power He had by conquering the storm. Peter steps out of the boat and onto the water, His eyes on Jesus as he went towards Him. Jesus is offering Peter the authority to overcome all that was against him. Until now, Peter was trusting in the work of man (namely, the boat) and his own strength (rowing against the waves) to deliver him. By stepping out of the boat, he is signifying his faith in Jesus as the only deliverer. As he maintains his focus on Him, he retains control over his circumstances.
           
Just as Peter seems to have realigned his focus, the storm begins to rage around Him, and his gaze is taken from Jesus and placed on His situation. Satan wasn’t through. Sensing he was about to be defeated, he throws his all at Peter, and manages to capture his attention again. With his focus on his situation instead of on his Savior, Peter begins to lost control and sink into despair. When we are going through trying situations, our only way of escape is by putting out trust in God, and keeping our eyes upon Him. Had Peter kept his focus on God, he would have conquered his circumstances.
           
Immediately, Jesus reaches down and takes Peter’s hand and pulls him back up. Verse 30 says Peter was just beginning to sink when he cried out to Jesus, and Jesus immediately takes his hand. God comes to us as soon as we cry out to Him, and, like Jesus was, he is right there, waiting. He doesn’t wait around for awhile, leaving us to flounder and sputter around until we’ve learned our lesson. He rescues us immediately. Then, Jesus reminds Peter why it is he sank—he doubted God’s sovereignty. He was afraid of the waved when the One who created the seas was standing there with him, beckoning him to rest in His protection.

"The Blesseds": The Persecuted

Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of Heaven.
Matthew 5:10

Jesus began and ended the beatitudes with a reference to those who will inherit the kingdom of Heaven. What is the kingdom of Heaven? Several times in the Gospels, Jesus makes reference to the "kingdom of Heaven" being come, or at hand. He was referring to Himself and the work He had come to do on our behalf. Salvation, and the blessings that come with it is God's kingdom-- a kingdom begun here on earth and made perfect in Heaven.
In this final "blessed", Jesus promises those facing persecution the blessings of the kingdom of Heaven. Many people would define persecution as physical or financial harm against a person because of their religious beliefs. These types of persecutions are real and many Christians around the world are suffering just such things for their faith in Christ. In our western culture founded on religious freedoms, Christians are less likely to face such persecution, but that does not mean we won't face any at all. Persecution may come in the form of verbal attacks on us and our belief, or even in discrimination at work or school.

Some faced jeers and flogging, while still others were chained and put in prison.

Hebrews 11:36

The idea that we will have to suffer-- in whatever form-- to follow Christ makes many people nervous. Some of us have been falsely led to believe that accepting Jesus means accepting a life of quiet ease and bliss, but the Scriptures say otherwise. Anyone who is truly seeking out the righteousness of God is going to face persecution from an unbelieving world.

Do not be surprised, my brothers, if the world hates you.

1 John 3:13

Unbelievers, and sometimes even other Christians are offended by righteous living, because it convicts them of their own sins and shortcomings. Usually this results in anger directed towards the person trying to live right, because they feel it will draw their attention away from their own empty depravity.

Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.

Matthew 5:11-12

Those who suffer because they try to do right are assured membership in God's kingdom. But God's kingdom not only means the coming kingdom , but the kingdom Jesus established on earth by HIs death, including the indwelling of the Holy Spirit. It means the power of God at work through us The word used for "theirs" in the verse also translates into "they". So what it could say is "blessed are those who are persecuted for seeking righteous living, for they are the kingdom of God at work on the earth."

Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.

2 Corinthians 4:16-17

Whatever we face for following Christ could never compare with the eternal blessings and glory that we will share with Him. He alone has the words of life. He alone has the comfort for our aching souls. He alone has the answer to all our troubles. He alone can fill the emptiness of our souls. He alone is worth living-- and dying-- for.

Christ Jesus who died—more than that, who was raised to life—is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written: "For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.” No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 8:31-39

Changing Focus. Post 4

4. God is all that can satisfy your longing.

Satan and our own flesh try so hard to promise fulfillment in anything but God. We enter this world realizing that there is a piece of us missing and most spend their entire life trying to find it. We search for it in relationships, financial gain, and, for some of us, in motherhood. That is why we become so consumed with our desire to have a child—because we feel we need it to be whole. We become convinced that it is what will fill the void we have discovered in our heart. Here are the facts: that void, that emptiness, that feeling of being incomplete, those are all there for one specific reason. There is a part of all humanity that was left void by sin. Some have described it as a “God-shaped hole”. However you choose to look at it, it is a void that only God can fill, and Satan has made it his mission to get you to fill it with anything else. The desire to be a mother is a God-given desire, but when it overwhelms your desire for God it becomes toxic. The truth is, even if you get pregnant and give birth to a healthy baby, those feelings of emptiness will eventually return. What results is frustration and bitterness—directed at your own child, because she cannot fulfill the expectations you have placed on her.

I experienced this first hand after we adopted our daughter, Isabella. I was certain that her presence in my life would soothe that nagging emptiness I had felt. For a time, it did, but it was not long before I felt it returning. Suddenly, she wasn’t enough. I needed more. I began to get frustrated with her as an expression of my disappointment in her inability to fulfill my longing. I had placed such a heavy burden on someone so little. I had set an expectation that she was incapable of fulfilling—that any child was incapable of fulfilling. I expected her to be for me what only God could be, and when she couldn’t, began to take out my discontent on her. It was an injustice to her. In His mercy, God opened my eyes to what was going on. Had He not, I feel certain that I would done serious, though unintentional, damage to the precious life God had entrusted to me. A child cannot fill the emptiness you feel, even if you think that emptiness is because you don’t have one. The day I finally understood this, I wept. Only God could completely fulfill me, and He has. He was a perfect fit.

“There are three things that are never satisfied— no, four that never say, "Enough!": the grave, the barren womb, the thirsty desert, the blazing fire.” Proverbs 30:15-16

"Anyone who drinks this water will soon become thirsty again. But those who drink the water I give will never be thirsty again. It becomes a fresh, bubbling spring within them, giving them eternal life." John 4:13-14

 “When you open your hand, you satisfy the hunger and thirst of every living thing.” Psalms 145:16

5. You need to find contentment in where you are now.

This truth is closely related to number four, but it is important enough to make it its own point. If your days are spent dreaming of a child, obsessing over which medication you could try next, or which procedure might work for you, you will find it difficult to feel content. Not just difficult, impossible. Feelings of discontent add further frustration to an already frustrating situation. Once you surrender to the fact that your emptiness can only be satisfied by God, you will begin to find contentment in who you are, and what you already have. Take a moment to stop and think about all that you’ve already been blessed with—family, husband, home, close friends—whatever you have, rejoice in it, and in the fact that the Creator of the universe has called you His own. Children will eventually grow up and leave, but your relationship with your God will remain long after the kids are gone. If your relationship with Him is your focus, you will find contentment. Not contentment to stay put, but contentment in the fact that He is all you need to be satisfied. Learn to say, like the apostle Paul, “I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances” (Philippians 4:11)

“Yet true godliness with contentment is itself great wealth. After all, we brought nothing with us when we came into the world, and we can't take anything with us when we leave it.” I Timothy 6:6-7

“…be satisfied with what you have. For God has said, ‘I will never fail you. I will never abandon you.’” Hebrews 13:5